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page #4 isn't "...Babies grow in their mommy’s belly” a lie as well?
How 'bout, "There is a special place in mommy where daddy plants his
seed and the baby grows there."
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page #6 If you tell your child that you will not die for a long, long,
long time and then you die the next day in a bad accident, aren't you
setting the child up for a really big emotional problem? Anything wrong
with, "I will always live in your heart and I will always love you."
You
don't need to volunteer every bit of information, but as they get older
and start questioning certain things, it's always better to tell the
truth than to lie, even if the truth isn't the *whole* truth. They'll
get there eventually, either with your help or on their own. A
questioning attitude should be rewarded with the truth, even (no,
*especially*) when the truth is hard to take. Balance difficult truths
with a sympathetic and comforting tone.
You
have the option to not share your past with your kids. They have no
innate right to know every little thing you did before you had kids. And
many of them will throw it in your face if you feel the need to be
fully confessional. I didn't do anything major myself, but that still
didn't mean I had an obligation to present my teens for review. I think
today's parents try too hard to be friends and buddies instead of
parents. They want to be the "cool" parent. And kids truly don't need
that. They need someone who will have their back and yes, even be their
excuse when they really don't want to do something.
When
my daughter was about 3 1/2 or 4 she was being very disagreeable about
goint to take a nap. I told her that she had better be good because
Santa was checking on all children, this was at Christmas time. Just
then my phone rang and it was my brother and when I said "well, hello
Santa." He went right along with me. Needless to say my daughter was
wide eyed and suddenly ready to take a nap. I did not usually tell her
lies like that but I was becoming ver frustrated that day as she would
test me to the end! I asked her if she wanted to talk to Santa, to
which she said NO......in later years she even laughed with my brother
and myself when we talked about the incident, to which she remembered!
No,
it's not ok to lie to your child.. ever. If you don't want to discuss
something tell them you'll talk to them later. If they're too young for
whatever it is, tell them that's adult stuff and you'll talk to them
when they're older. Children are not like adults. They are extremely
literal with very little gray areas in their thinking. If something
comes up like the dead bug in the story above, tell them it's dead. Why
would you tell a lie then another one to cover it up? I raised three
children with full intent on total honesty after living with a mother
who lied incessantly. Yes, a few times I slipped and told "little white
lies" ie - lies but I always set it straight and apologized. I believe
this has made my family close and my children feel safe in the knowledge
that they will always be able to trust me implicitly.
You
should tell them the truth, no matter how embarrassing, heartbreaking,
etc. The younger the child, the shorter the answer. Lying only leads to
more lies. Lying also teaches your children it's okay to lie. Children
learn by example. Parents should be their best example. Sometimes the
truth hurts.
My
Name is Susan williams , From United States. I wish to share my
testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Dahiru
has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex
husband to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called
williams we were together for a long time and we loved our self's but
when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me
he can't continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him
back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact
email, then you won't believe this when I contacted this man on my
problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and
after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated
am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once
again the great Dr Dahiru for what you have done for me, if you are out
there passing through any of this problems listed below: (1) If you want
your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3) You want to be
promoted in your office. (4) You want women/men to run after you. (5) If
you want a child. (6) You want to be rich. (7) You want to tie your
husband/wife to be yours forever. (8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money (10)
Cure for HIV - you can contact hem via: email arewaspecialisttemple@yahoo.com
page #4 isn't "...Babies grow in their mommy’s belly” a lie as well?
How 'bout, "There is a special place in mommy where daddy plants his
seed and the baby grows there."
page #6 If you tell your child that you will not die for a long, long,
long time and then you die the next day in a bad accident, aren't you
setting the child up for a really big emotional problem? Anything wrong
with, "I will always live in your heart and I will always love you."
don't need to volunteer every bit of information, but as they get older
and start questioning certain things, it's always better to tell the
truth than to lie, even if the truth isn't the *whole* truth. They'll
get there eventually, either with your help or on their own. A
questioning attitude should be rewarded with the truth, even (no,
*especially*) when the truth is hard to take. Balance difficult truths
with a sympathetic and comforting tone.
have the option to not share your past with your kids. They have no
innate right to know every little thing you did before you had kids. And
many of them will throw it in your face if you feel the need to be
fully confessional. I didn't do anything major myself, but that still
didn't mean I had an obligation to present my teens for review. I think
today's parents try too hard to be friends and buddies instead of
parents. They want to be the "cool" parent. And kids truly don't need
that. They need someone who will have their back and yes, even be their
excuse when they really don't want to do something.
my daughter was about 3 1/2 or 4 she was being very disagreeable about
goint to take a nap. I told her that she had better be good because
Santa was checking on all children, this was at Christmas time. Just
then my phone rang and it was my brother and when I said "well, hello
Santa." He went right along with me. Needless to say my daughter was
wide eyed and suddenly ready to take a nap. I did not usually tell her
lies like that but I was becoming ver frustrated that day as she would
test me to the end! I asked her if she wanted to talk to Santa, to
which she said NO......in later years she even laughed with my brother
and myself when we talked about the incident, to which she remembered!
it's not ok to lie to your child.. ever. If you don't want to discuss
something tell them you'll talk to them later. If they're too young for
whatever it is, tell them that's adult stuff and you'll talk to them
when they're older.
Children are not like adults. They are extremely
literal with very little gray areas in their thinking. If something
comes up like the dead bug in the story above, tell them it's dead. Why
would you tell a lie then another one to cover it up?
I raised three
children with full intent on total honesty after living with a mother
who lied incessantly. Yes, a few times I slipped and told "little white
lies" ie - lies but I always set it straight and apologized. I believe
this has made my family close and my children feel safe in the knowledge
that they will always be able to trust me implicitly.
should tell them the truth, no matter how embarrassing, heartbreaking,
etc. The younger the child, the shorter the answer. Lying only leads to
more lies. Lying also teaches your children it's okay to lie. Children
learn by example. Parents should be their best example. Sometimes the
truth hurts.
Name is Susan williams , From United States. I wish to share my
testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Dahiru
has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex
husband to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called
williams we were together for a long time and we loved our self's but
when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me
he can't continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him
back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact
email, then you won't believe this when I contacted this man on my
problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and
after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated
am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once
again the great Dr Dahiru for what you have done for me, if you are out
there passing through any of this problems listed below: (1) If you want
your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3) You want to be
promoted in your office. (4) You want women/men to run after you. (5) If
you want a child. (6) You want to be rich. (7) You want to tie your
husband/wife to be yours forever. (8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money (10)
Cure for HIV - you can contact hem via: email arewaspecialisttemple@yahoo.com
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